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Women tend to seek connection in conversation, while men focus on achieving status from "summary" of You Just Don't Understand by Deborah Tannen

In conversation, women often seek connection by sharing personal experiences and feelings, while men tend to focus on achieving status through the exchange of information and opinions. This fundamental difference in communication styles can lead to misunderstandings and misinterpretations between genders. Women's conversational style is characterized by a desire to create intimacy and build rapport with their conversation partners. They tend to use language to establish connections and foster relationships. For example, women may share personal anecdotes or ask questions to show interest and empathy towards the other person. By engaging in this type of communication, women aim to create a sense of closeness and emotional bonding. On the other hand, men often use conversation as a way ...
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    You Just Don't Understand

    Deborah Tannen

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