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Silence can convey meaning in conversations from "summary" of Conversational Style by Deborah Tannen

One key aspect of communication that is often overlooked is the power of silence. In conversations, silence can speak volumes without a single word being uttered. This concept is particularly emphasized in Deborah Tannen's book 'Conversational Style', where she delves into the intricacies of how silence can convey meaning in various interactions. Silence can serve as a form of nonverbal communication, allowing individuals to express a range of emotions and intentions. For example, a pause in a conversation can indicate contemplation, hesitation, or even agreement. By paying attention to these moments of silence, individuals can gain a deeper understanding of the underlying messages being conveyed. In addition to conveyin...
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    Conversational Style

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