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Men and women have different communication styles from "summary" of You Just Don't Understand by Deborah Tannen

In conversations between men and women, misunderstandings often arise due to differences in communication styles. Men tend to use conversation to convey information and solve problems, speaking in a direct and assertive manner. They view conversations as a way to establish status and demonstrate knowledge. On the other hand, women tend to use conversation to establish connections and build relationships. They focus on building rapport and seek support and empathy from their conversation partners. Women often use indirect language and seek validation from their listeners. These differing communication styles can lead to misinterpretations in conversations. For example, when a woman shares a problem, she may be seeking empathy and emotional support from her conversation partner. However, a man may perceive her as seeking advice and offering solutions. This mismatch in expectations can lead to frustrat...
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    You Just Don't Understand

    Deborah Tannen

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