Seeking external validation leads to disappointment from "summary" of Women Who Love Too Much by Robin Norwood
When we constantly seek validation from others, we are setting ourselves up for disappointment. This is because we are placing our worth and value in the hands of others, rather than within ourselves. We become dependent on external sources to feel good about ourselves, which is a dangerous and unsustainable way to live. Seeking validation from others is like trying to fill a void within ourselves with something that can never truly satisfy us. No matter how much validation we receive from others, it will never be enough to make us feel whole. We will always be left wanting more, constantly seeking approval and recognition from others to feel good about ourselves. This constant need for validation can also lead to unhealthy relationships, as we may be willing to compromise our own values and boundaries in order to please others and gain t...
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