Let go of desire for control from "summary" of Wisdom Of Insecurity by Alan W Watts
The idea of control is a fundamental aspect of human nature. We have a deep-seated desire to manipulate our surroundings to suit our needs and preferences. We believe that by exerting control over our lives, we can ensure our safety and security. However, this desire for control is ultimately futile. The world is a complex and ever-changing place, and no amount of planning or manipulation can guarantee a desired outcome. When we try to control every aspect of our lives, we inevitably set ourselves up for disappointment and frustration. We become fixated on a narrow vision of how things should be, and we are unable to adapt to the inevitable changes and uncertainties that life throws our way. In our quest for control, we lose sight of the beauty and spontaneity of life. Letting go of the desire for control does not mean giving up or resigning ourselves to fate. It means accepting the inherent unpredictability of life and embracing the unknown. When we release our grip on the need to control, we open ourselves up to new possibilities and experiences. We become more flexible and resilient, able to navigate life's twists and turns with grace and ease. By relinquishing our need for control, we free ourselves from the burden of constantly trying to manipulate our circumstances. We can relax into the flow of life, trusting that everything will unfold as it is meant to. This shift in perspective allows us to appreciate the beauty and wonder of the present moment, rather than being consumed by worries about the future. In letting go of the desire for control, we find a sense of liberation and peace. We no longer feel the need to cling to a false sense of security, knowing that true security comes from within. We can embrace the unknown with a sense of curiosity and adventure, knowing that we have the strength and resilience to face whatever comes our way. By releasing our need for control, we open ourselves up to a world of infinite possibilities and opportunities for growth and transformation.
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