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Our brain is wired for connection from birth from "summary" of Wired for Dating by Stan Tatkin
From the moment we enter this world, our brains are primed for connection. This is not a learned behavior, but rather an innate drive that is hardwired into us. Our brains are designed to seek out and maintain social bonds with others, as this is crucial for our survival and well-being. As infants, we rely on our caregivers to meet our needs and provide us with love and security. This early attachment forms the foundation for how we relate to others later in life. When our caregivers are responsive and attuned to our needs, our brains develop a sense of safety and trust in the world around us. This sets the stage for healthy relationships in the future. Conversely, when our early attachments are fraught with inconsistency or neglect, our brains can become wired for insecurity and distrust. This can lead to difficulties in forming and maintaining relationships as adults, as we may struggle to trust others or even ourselves. Throughout our lives, our brains continue to seek out connection with others. We are social beings by nature, and our brains are constantly scanning our environment for cues of safety or threat. This is why we are drawn to certain people and repelled by others - our brains are instinctively trying to protect us from harm and find sources of support and comfort. Understanding that our brains are wired for connection from birth can help us navigate the complexities of dating and relationships. By recognizing our innate need for connection and learning how to communicate effectively with others, we can cultivate healthy, fulfilling relationships that nourish us on a deep level.
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