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Romantic love is a powerful force that can override logic and reason from "summary" of Why We Love by Helen Fisher

In the throes of romantic love, people often behave in ways that seem irrational. They may ignore red flags or make sacrifices that defy common sense. Despite knowing the potential risks or consequences, individuals may still choose to pursue a romantic relationship with someone who may not be the most suitable partner. This irrational behavior can be attributed to the powerful nature of romantic love, which has the ability to override logic and reason. Romantic love is a complex interplay of neurochemicals and hormones that drive our behavior and decision-making processes. When we are in love, our brains are flooded with dopamine, norepinephrine, and other chemicals that create feelings of euphoria and attachment. These chemicals can influence our thoughts and actions, leading us to prioritize our romantic partner above all else. The intensity of romantic love can cloud our judgment and make us more willing to take risks for the sake of our relationship. We may overlook flaws or problematic behavior in our partner, choosing to focus instead on the positive aspects of the relationship. This selective attention can distort our perception of reality and lead us to make choices that defy reason. Despite knowing that a relationship may not be in our best interest, the powerful pull of romantic love can make it difficult to walk away. The fear of losing the intense emotional connection we have with our partner can override our logical thinking, causing us to stay in a relationship that may be unhealthy or unsustainable. This phenomenon is often referred to as being "love-struck," where reason takes a backseat to the overwhelming emotions of love.
  1. Romantic love has the ability to override logic and reason, leading individuals to make decisions that may not align with their best interests. The intense emotions and neurochemical changes associated with love can cloud our judgment and distort our perception of reality. This powerful force of romantic love can drive us to prioritize our relationships above all else, even in the face of potential risks or consequences.
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Why We Love

Helen Fisher

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