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Abusers may control their partners through sexual coercion from "summary" of Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft

Abusers often use sex as a tool to dominate and control their partners. They may pressure their partners into unwanted sexual activities or manipulate them into believing that they have no right to say no. This form of coercion is a violation of boundaries and a way for the abuser to exert power over their partner. Sexual coercion can take many forms, from subtle manipulation to outright force. The abuser may use emotional blackmail, threats, or physical violence to ensure that their partner complies with their demands. By controlling their partner's sexuality, the abuser reinforces their sense of entitlement and superiority in the relationship. In some cases, the abuser may use sex as a reward for good behavior or as a punishment for perceived infractions. This creates a dynamic where the victim feels that their worth is tied to their willingness to engage in sexual activities, further entrenching the power imbalance in the relationship. Sexual coercion is a clear indicator of an abusive relationship and should never be tolerated. It is a violation of the victim's autonomy and dignity, and can have long-lasting psychological effects. Recognizing this form of control is crucial in breaking free from the cycle of abuse and seeking help to establish healthy boundaries and relationships.
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    Why Does He Do That?

    Lundy Bancroft

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