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Social comparison influences perception of success and selfworth from "summary" of The Winner Effect by Ian Robertson
Human beings are inherently social creatures, constantly evaluating themselves against others. This tendency shapes not only how success is perceived but also how individuals derive their self-worth. When one compares achievements with peers, it becomes a lens through which personal accomplishments are filtered. Success is often measured not in absolute terms but in relation to what others achieve. A promotion at work may feel less significant if a colleague receives an even greater accolade on the same day. Such comparisons can yield a double-edged sword. On one hand, observing a peer’s triumph can motivate individuals to strive for better performance, pushing them to reach their potential. On the other hand, if one continually finds themselves falling short of others' achievements, it can lead to feelings of inadequacy and diminished self-esteem. This cycle of comparison can create a distorted self-image, where external validati...
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