Forgiveness is a process in the aftermath of betrayal from "summary" of The State of Affairs by Esther Perel
Forgiveness is not a singular event, but a complex and dynamic process that unfolds over time in the wake of betrayal. It is not a straightforward path that leads from hurt to healing, but rather a journey filled with twists and turns, setbacks and breakthroughs. This process is not linear, but rather circular, as the betrayed individual grapples with a myriad of emotions, ranging from anger and sadness to confusion and ambivalence. The aftermath of betrayal is characterized by a profound sense of loss and disorientation. The betrayed individual is left to grapple with the shattered illusions of trust and security, as well as the painful realities of deception and betrayal. In the face of such devastation, forgiveness can seem like an impossible task, a mountain too high to climb. In ...
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