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Communication is essential in the aftermath of infidelity from "summary" of The State of Affairs by Esther Perel

Following an affair, communication becomes paramount. The aftermath of infidelity is a time of confusion, pain, and uncertainty. It is crucial for both partners to engage in open and honest dialogue in order to process their emotions and navigate the complexities of the situation. This is not a time for silence or avoidance. By sharing their thoughts and feelings with each other, partners can begin to rebuild trust and create a path forward. Communication allows for the exploration of the underlying issues that may have contributed to the infidelity. It provides an opportunity for partners to reflect on their needs, desires, and vulnerabilities. By engaging in conversations about these topics, they can gain a deeper understanding of themselves and each other. This self-awareness is essential for growth and healing. Mo...
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    The State of Affairs

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