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Take responsibility for your actions from "summary" of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, Ph.D.
When conflicts arise in a marriage, it can be tempting to blame your partner for the issues at hand. However, it is crucial to remember that it takes two people to create conflict in a relationship. Each partner plays a role in the dynamics of the relationship, and it is essential to take responsibility for your actions and how they contribute to the problems in the marriage. When you take responsibility for your actions, you are acknowledging your part in the conflict and showing a willingness to work towards resolution. This involves being honest with yourself about your behavior and how it may have impacted your partner. By owning up to your mistakes, you are demonstrating maturity and a commitment to improving the relationship. Taking responsibility for your actions also means being accountable for the words you say and the promises you make. It is...
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