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Maintain a positive perspective from "summary" of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman

Maintaining a positive perspective is crucial in a marriage. It involves looking at your partner with a sense of appreciation and goodwill, rather than focusing on their flaws or shortcomings. When you adopt a positive perspective, you are more likely to approach your partner with empathy and understanding, rather than criticism or contempt. One way to maintain a positive perspective is to actively look for the good in your partner. This means acknowledging their strengths and positive qualities, rather than fixating on their weaknesses. By focusing on the positive aspects of your partner, you can cultivate a sense of gratitude and admiration for them, which can strengthen your bond and increase your overall satisfaction in the relationship. Anothe...
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    The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

    John Gottman

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