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Foster a culture of appreciation from "summary" of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, Ph.D.

Creating a culture of appreciation in a relationship involves more than simply saying "thank you" or giving compliments. It requires a genuine attitude of respect and admiration towards your partner. This means recognizing and valuing their positive qualities, efforts, and contributions to the relationship. When you foster a culture of appreciation, you are cultivating an environment where both partners feel seen, heard, and understood. This builds a sense of connection and emotional intimacy, which are essential for a strong and healthy relationship. It also helps to counteract the negative effects of criticism and contempt, which can erode the foundation of a marriage. One way to show appreciation is by expressing gratitude for the little things that your partner does. This could be as simple as thanking them for doing the dishes or making you a cup of coffee. These small gestures of appreciation can go a long way in strengthening the bond between you and your partner....
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    The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

    John Gottman, Ph.D.

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