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Turning towards each other builds trust and closeness from "summary" of The Relationship Cure by John Gottman, PhD,Joan DeClaire

When you turn towards each other, you are essentially showing that you care about your partner's thoughts, feelings, and needs. This simple act of paying attention and being responsive can go a long way in building trust and closeness in your relationship. It sends a clear message that you are there for them and that you value their presence in your life. Turning towards each other involves actively listening to your partner, being empathetic towards their emotions, and being willing to support them in times of need. By doing so, you create a safe space for open communication and vulnerability, which are essential components of a healthy and thriving relationship. When you consistently turn towards each other, you establish a strong foundation of trust and connection that can withstand challenges and conflicts. On the other hand, turning away from each other can erode trust and distanc...
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    The Relationship Cure

    John Gottman, PhD

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