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Turning towards each other builds trust and closeness from "summary" of The Relationship Cure by John Gottman, PhD,Joan DeClaire
When you turn towards each other, you are essentially showing that you care about your partner's thoughts, feelings, and needs. This simple act of paying attention and being responsive can go a long way in building trust and closeness in your relationship. It sends a clear message that you are there for them and that you value their presence in your life. Turning towards each other involves actively listening to your partner, being empathetic towards their emotions, and being willing to support them in times of need. By doing so, you create a safe space for open communication and vulnerability, which are essential components of a healthy and thriving relationship. When you consistently turn towards each other, you establish a strong foundation of trust and connection that can withstand challenges and conflicts. On the other hand, turning away from each other can erode trust and distance you from your partner. Ignoring or dismissing your partner's bids for attention can make them feel unimportant and unloved. Over time, this can lead to feelings of loneliness, resentment, and disconnection in the relationship. When you neglect to turn towards each other, you miss out on opportunities to deepen your bond and strengthen your emotional connection. In order to cultivate a more fulfilling and intimate relationship, it is important to make a conscious effort to turn towards each other on a regular basis. This means being present, engaged, and attentive in your interactions with your partner. It means prioritizing their needs and feelings, and showing them that you value and appreciate them. By consistently turning towards each other, you can create a positive cycle of trust, intimacy, and emotional connection that will enrich your relationship and bring you closer together.
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