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Stonewalling shuts down communication; be open and responsive instead from "summary" of The Relationship Cure by John Gottman, PhD,Joan DeClaire

When faced with conflict or tension in a relationship, it can be tempting to shut down and stonewall the other person. Stonewalling is a defense mechanism that involves withdrawing from communication and refusing to engage with the other person. While it may seem like a way to avoid conflict, stonewalling actually shuts down communication and prevents any resolution from being reached. Instead of stonewalling, it is important to be open and responsive in communication. This means actively listening to the other person's perspective, even if it differs from your own. Being open and responsive invol...
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    The Relationship Cure

    John Gottman, PhD

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