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Building love maps deepens intimacy and understanding from "summary" of The Relationship Cure by John Gottman, PhD,Joan DeClaire

Building love maps involves regularly updating the information we have about our partner’s world. This process requires us to make a conscious effort to stay connected to our partner’s thoughts, feelings, and experiences. By doing so, we deepen our understanding of who they are and what they value. This understanding is the foundation of intimacy in a relationship. When we have a detailed love map of our partner, we are better equipped to respond to their needs and desires. We can anticipate their reactions in different situations and provide them with the support they need. This level of insight fosters a sense of emotional closeness...
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    The Relationship Cure

    John Gottman, PhD

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