Be consistent in your parenting decisions from "summary" of The Parallel Parenting Solution: Eliminate Confict With Your Ex, Create The Life You Want by Carl Knickerbocker Jd
Consistency is key when it comes to making parenting decisions. This means that both parents need to be on the same page and maintain a united front when it comes to rules, consequences, and expectations for their children. When parents are inconsistent, it can lead to confusion and frustration for the children, as they may not know what to expect from one parent to the next. This can also create opportunities for manipulation and divide between the parents, as children may try to play one parent against the other in order to get their way. In order to be consistent in your parenting decisions, it is important to communicate openly and regularly with your co-parent. This means having discussions about rules and consequences, and coming to agreements on how to handle different situations that may arise. By being on the same page, you can present a united front to your children and el...
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