Consistent consequences are key from "summary" of The New Dare to Discipline by James C. Dobson
Consistent consequences are the linchpin of effective discipline, just as they are in any other arena of life. They provide structure and boundaries for children, helping them understand the difference between right and wrong. When consequences are predictable and consistently enforced, children learn to make better choices in order to avoid negative outcomes. Children are like scientists, constantly testing the waters to see how far they can push the boundaries. If consequences are erratic or inconsistent, children will not learn the expected outcomes of their actions. This can lead to confusion, frustration, and a lack of respect for authority. Consistency is not always easy, especially when emotions are running high. It requires parents to remain calm and firm in the face of defiance or manipulation. It means following through on consequences even when it is inconvenient or unco...
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