Set realistic expectations for your child from "summary" of The New Dare to Discipline by James C. Dobson
One of the most important aspects of parenting is having a clear understanding of what is realistic to expect from your child. It is crucial to have realistic expectations because setting goals that are too high can lead to frustration and disappointment for both you and your child. On the other hand, setting goals that are too low can prevent your child from reaching their full potential. When setting expectations for your child, it is important to take into consideration their age, temperament, and individual strengths and weaknesses. Every child is different, and what may be realistic for one child may not be for another. It is important to tailor your expectations to fit your child's unique personality and abilities. It is also important to be mindful of external factors that may influence your child's behavior and performance. Factors such as peer pressure, school environment, and family dynamics can all play a role in how your child responds to your expectations. By taking these factors into account, you can set more realistic goals for your child. Additionally, it is important to communicate your expectations clearly to your child. Be specific about what you expect from them and provide clear guidelines for how they can achieve those expectations. By being clear and consistent in your communication, you can help your child understand what is expected of them and how they can meet those expectations.- Setting realistic expectations for your child is essential for their development and well-being. By considering your child's individual characteristics, external influences, and communicating clearly with them, you can set achievable goals that will help your child grow and succeed.
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