Involve both parents in the discipline process from "summary" of The New Dare to Discipline by James C. Dobson
The best way to maintain consistency and unity in the discipline process is to involve both parents. This does not mean that one parent should be the "good cop" while the other is the "bad cop." Rather, both parents should work together as a team to establish and enforce rules and consequences. When both parents are involved in the discipline process, children are less likely to play one parent against the other. They will understand that both parents are on the same page and that there is no room for manipulation or negotiation. It is important for both parents to communicate openly with each other about discipline strategies and to present a united front to their children. This requires ongoing communication and cooperation between parents, even when they may have different parenting styles or approaches. When parents are consistent in their discipline and work together as a team, children are more likely to respect and obey their authority. They will understand that rules are rules, regardless of which parent is enforcing them. If there is disagreement between parents about discipline, it should be handled privately and resolved before presenting a unified front to the children. Children should never be allowed to see their parents in conflict over discipline issues.- Involving both parents in the discipline process helps to create a stable and secure environment for children. When parents are consistent and united in their approach to discipline, children are more likely to feel safe, loved, and respected.
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