Embracing selfcompassion can be a powerful antidote to depression from "summary" of The Mindful Way Through Depression by Mark; Teasdale John; Segal Williams (Zindel; Kabat-Zinn, Jon)
When we are in the depths of depression, it can be all too easy to fall into a pattern of self-criticism and self-judgment. We may berate ourselves for not being able to function as we used to, for not being able to find joy in the things that once brought us pleasure. This constant inner dialogue of negativity only serves to deepen our feelings of worthlessness and despair. However, embracing self-compassion offers a way out of this destructive cycle. Self-compassion involves treating ourselves with the same kindness and understanding that we would offer to a friend in need. It means recognizing that we are human, and therefore imperfect, and that it is okay to struggle. By cultivating self-compassion, we can begin to counteract the harsh self-criticism that fuels our depression. Instead of beating ourselves up for our perceived failings, we can offer ourselves words of comfort and encouragement. Research has shown that self-compassion is associated with lower levels of depression and anxiety. When we are able to be gentle with ourselves in the face of our suffering, we are less likely to get caught up in a spiral of negative thoughts and emotions. Instead, we are better able to hold our pain with a sense of equanimity, recognizing that it is a normal part of the human experience. Practicing mindfulness can help us develop self-compassion by allowing us to observe our thoughts and feelings without judgment. When we approach our inner experience with curiosity and openness, we can begin to see the ways in which we are being unkind to ourselves. We can then choose to respond with compassion and understanding, rather than criticism and condemnation. By embracing self-compassion, we can start to break free from the grip of depression. When we treat ourselves with kindness and care, we create a safe space in which healing can take place. We learn to befriend ourselves in our moments of greatest need, offering ourselves the love and support that we so desperately crave. In this way, self-compassion becomes a powerful antidote to the darkness of depression, shining a light of hope and healing into our lives.
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