Conflict is normal in marriage from "summary" of The Marriage Book by Nicky Lee,Sila Lee
Conflict is an inevitable part of marriage. It is a natural consequence of two individuals coming together with their own unique personalities, backgrounds, and perspectives. When two people live together day in and day out, there are bound to be disagreements, misunderstandings, and clashes of will. Conflict can arise from something as trivial as forgetting to take out the trash or as significant as differences in values and beliefs. It can stem from unmet expectations, unresolved issues from the past, or simply from being in a bad mood. Whatever the cause, conflict is a reality that every married couple must face at some point. Many couples mistakenly believe that conflict is a sign of a failing marriage. They fear that if they argue or disagree, it means that there is something fundamentally wrong with their relationship. However, the truth is that conflict is not only normal but also healthy in a marriage. It is through conflict that couples have the opportunity to communicate, negotiate, and grow closer together. Avoiding conflict or sweeping issues under the rug may seem like the easier route in the short term, but it can lead to resentment, distance, and ultimately the breakdown of the marriage. By confronting conflict head-on, couples have the chance to address underlying issues, express their needs and feelings, and work towards finding a resolution that satisfies both parties. Learning how to navigate conflict in a constructive and respectful manner is a crucial skill for any married couple. It involves active listening, empathy, compromise, and a willingness to see things from the other person's perspective. It also requires setting aside ego, pride, and the need to be right in favor of finding common ground and maintaining harmony in the relationship.- It is an essential part of marriage that can ultimately strengthen the bond between partners. By embracing conflict as a normal and even necessary aspect of married life, couples can learn to communicate more effectively, deepen their understanding of each other, and build a stronger foundation for a lasting and fulfilling relationship.
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