Reflecting on our own listening patterns can lead to growth from "summary" of The Lost Art of Listening, Third Edition by Michael P. Nichols,Martha B. Straus
As we go about our daily lives, we rarely stop to think about how we listen to others. It's a skill that we often take for granted, assuming that we are doing it well simply because we are able to hear what is being said. However, taking the time to reflect on our own listening patterns can be a powerful tool for personal growth. When we reflect on our listening patterns, we gain insight into how we interact with others. We may discover that we have a tendency to interrupt or finish other people's sentences, indicating a lack of patience or a desire to dominate the conversation. Alternatively, we might realize that we often jump to conclusions or make assumptions about what someone is trying to say, rather than truly listening to their words. By examining our listening habits, we ca...
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