Be comfortable with silence from "summary" of The Lost Art of Listening by Michael P. Nichols
One essential skill to cultivate in listening is to be comfortable with silence. Some people find silence uncomfortable and feel compelled to fill it with words, even if they are not sure what to say. However, silence can be a powerful tool in communication. It allows the speaker time to gather their thoughts and express themselves in a meaningful way. It also gives the listener the opportunity to absorb what has been said and formulate a thoughtful response. Silence can create a sense of intimacy and connection between individuals. When we are comfortable with silence, we are demonstrating our willingness to listen actively and attentively. It shows that we are present in the moment and fully engaged in the conversation. By allowing for moments of silence, we are giving the speaker the space they need to share their thoughts and feeling...
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