Let go of control and allow children to make choices from "summary" of The Gentle Parent by L. R. Knost
Trusting children to make choices does not mean abandoning our role as parents. It simply means empowering our children to explore their world and learn from their experiences. When we release our need for control and allow them the freedom to make decisions, we are helping them develop important skills such as critical thinking, problem-solving, and decision-making. By giving children the space to make choices, we are showing them that their opinions and desires are valued. This boosts their self-esteem and helps them develop a strong sense of autonomy. Children who feel empowered to make decisions are more likely to take ownership of their actions and learn from their mistakes. As pare...
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