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Agreement 3: Don't make assumptions from "summary" of The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz,Janet Mills
Agreement 3 invites us to be aware of the power of assumptions and the potential harm they can cause in our relationships. When we make assumptions, we believe we know what others are thinking, feeling, or intending without actually knowing. This can lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, and unnecessary suffering. Assumptions are often based on our own past experiences, beliefs, and conditioning. We project our inner world onto others, assuming they see the world the same way we do. However, everyone has their own unique perspective shaped by their own experiences and beliefs. By making assumptions, we limit our understanding of others and create barriers to effective communication. When we make assumptions, we also take things personally. We interpret the words and actions of others through our own filters, assuming they are directed at us in some way. This can lead to feelings ...
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