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Crossing arms can signify defensiveness or closedoff attitude from "summary" of The Definitive Book of Body Language by Barbara Pease,Allan Pease

When people cross their arms, they are creating a barrier between themselves and others. This defensive posture is a way of protecting oneself from perceived threats or discomfort. By crossing their arms, individuals are essentially closing themselves off from the outside world, signaling that they are not open to communication or interaction. This closed-off attitude can be seen in various situations, such as during a disagreement or when someone feels uncomfortable or insecure. When a person crosses their arms while listening to someone else speak, it can indicate that they are not receptive to the message being conveyed. This can create a sense of tension or conflict in the interaction, as the person with crossed arms may appear uninterested or disengaged. In some cases, crossing arms can be a subconscious response to feeling vulnerable or threatened. By creating a physical barrier with their arms, individuals are trying to protect themselves from potential harm or emotional discomfort. This defensive posture can send a clear signal to others that the person is not willing to engage or be vulnerable in that moment. It is important to consider the context and other nonverbal cues when interpreting crossed arms. While this posture generally signifies defensiveness or a closed-off attitude, it is not always a reliable indicator on its own. By observing other body language signals and considering the situation as a whole, one can gain a better understanding of what the crossed arms may be communicating.
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    The Definitive Book of Body Language

    Barbara Pease

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