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Work towards finding common ground in disagreements from "summary" of The Dance of Connection by Harriet Lerner

When faced with conflicts or disagreements, it is important to approach the situation with an open mind and a willingness to understand the other person's perspective. Instead of immediately jumping to defend our own position, we can take the time to listen actively and empathetically to the other person's point of view. By actively listening to the other person, we can gain valuable insights into their thoughts and feelings, which can help us find common ground and work towards a resolution. This involves setting aside our own preconceived notions and biases and truly trying to see the situation from the other person's perspective. In order to find common ground in disagreements, it is important...
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    The Dance of Connection

    Harriet Lerner

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