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Create a safe space for open dialogue from "summary" of The Dance of Connection by Harriet Lerner

Creating a safe space for open dialogue is essential in any relationship. When we feel safe, respected, and heard, we are more likely to communicate openly and honestly. This is especially true when discussing difficult topics or addressing conflicts. In order to create a safe space for open dialogue, we must first be willing to listen with an open mind and an open heart. This means setting aside our own judgments, assumptions, and defenses in order to truly hear what the other person is saying. It also means being willing to be vulnerable and share our own thoughts and feelings in a genuine and authentic way. Creating a safe space for open dialogue also requires us to be mindful of our body language, tone of voice, and nonverbal cues. These subtle signals can either invite openness and honesty or shut down communication. By being aware of how we are coming across to the other person, we can ...
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    The Dance of Connection

    Harriet Lerner

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