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Remembering is an act of creation from "summary" of The Art of Memoir by Mary Karr
Memory is a slippery creature. It's prone to distorting facts, smoothing rough edges, and filling in gaps with pure invention. When we recall the past, we're not simply replaying a tape of events - we're engaging in a creative act. We're stitching together fragments of the past with the thread of our present selves, weaving a narrative that makes sense to us. This process of remembering is inherently subjective. Our memories are colored by our emotions, our biases, and our desires. We reshape the past to fit our present needs, casting ourselves as heroes, victims, or villains as the situation demands. We edit out the inconvenient truths, the embarrassing moments, the painful losses. In doing so, we create a version of reality that suits us, that flatters us, that comforts us. This act of creative remembering is not necessarily a bad thing. In fact, it's an essential part of the memoirist's craft. Without the ability to shape our memories into a coherent narrative, we would be left with a ju...
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