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Love is not just a feeling, but a decision and a commitment from "summary" of The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm
Love is often misunderstood as simply a feeling that comes and goes, a passive emotion that we have no control over. However, this is not the case. Love is not just a feeling; it is a decision we make, a commitment we choose to uphold. It is an active, ongoing process that requires effort and dedication. When we view love as solely a feeling, we become passive recipients of love, waiting for it to come to us rather than actively engaging in the act of loving. We may feel love for someone one day, but if we do not actively choose to commit to them and make the effort to nurture and sustain that love, it will inevitably fade away. True love involves a conscious decision to love someone, to prioritize their wellbeing and happiness, even when it is difficult or inconvenient. It requires us to set aside our ow...
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