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Love is a response to another person's needs without ignoring your own from "summary" of The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm

Love, far from being a simple sentiment or a fleeting emotion, is a complex and multifaceted concept that requires deep understanding and constant effort. It involves a deep sense of responsibility towards the other person, a commitment to their well-being, and a genuine desire to fulfill their needs. However, it is essential to remember that love should not come at the cost of neglecting one's own needs and desires. In order to truly love another person, one must be able to strike a delicate balance between meeting their needs and taking care of oneself. This means being attentive and responsive to the needs of the other person, while also being mindful of one's own boundaries and limitations. It requires a high level of self-awareness and introspection, as well as a willingness to communicate openly and honestly with the other person. It is important to realize that love is not a one-sided endeavor, where one person sacrifices their own well-being for the sake of the other. True love is a mutual exchange of care and support, where both parties are equally invested in each other's happiness and fulfillment. It is a collaborative effort that requires both parties to be fully present and engaged in the relationship. At the same time, it is crucial to maintain a sense of independence and autonomy within the relationship. Each person should be able to pursue their own interests and goals, while also supporting and encouraging the other person in their endeavors. This sense of balance and reciprocity is essential for a healthy and fulfilling relationship, where both parties can grow and thrive together.
  1. Love is a dynamic and evolving process that requires constant attention and effort. It is a delicate dance between meeting the needs of the other person and taking care of oneself, while also maintaining a sense of independence and autonomy. By striking a balance between these elements, one can cultivate a deep and meaningful connection with another person based on mutual respect, understanding, and support.
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The Art of Loving

Erich Fromm

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