Silence can be a powerful tool in conversations from "summary" of The Art of Conversation by Judy Apps
Silence can be a powerful tool in conversations. It is a tool that can be wielded with great skill and subtlety, and when used effectively, it can have a profound impact on the flow and outcome of a conversation. When we think of conversations, we often focus on the words that are spoken, but what is left unsaid can be just as important. Silence can create space for reflection, allowing both parties to absorb and process what has been said. It can also serve as a powerful form of nonverbal communication, conveying emotions and intentions that words alone cannot express. Silence can be used strategically to invite the other person to speak, to encourage them to open up and share their thoughts and feelings. By remaining silent, we show that we are attentive and receptive, creating a safe space for the other person to express themselves. At the same time, silence can be used to assert dominance and control in a ...
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