Don't try to change narcissists from "summary" of Surrounded by Narcissists by Thomas Erikson
Attempting to change a narcissist is like trying to teach a fish to climb a tree. It's simply not going to happen. Narcissists have a fixed mindset and believe that they are perfect just the way they are. They have an inflated sense of self-importance and lack empathy towards others. They are not capable of introspection or self-reflection, which are essential qualities for personal growth and change. Narcissists are masters of manipulation and will do whatever it takes to maintain their false image of perfection. They will gaslight, guilt-trip, and blame others for their own shortcomings. They are experts at shifting the blame away from themselves and onto others. Trying to change a narcissist is futile because they will never admit that they have a problem. Instead of wasting your time and energy trying to change a narcissist, focus on setting boundaries and protecting yourself. Recognize their toxic behavior and limit your interactions with them. Surround yourself with positive and supportive people who lift you up instead of tearing you down. It's important to remember that you cannot control the behavior of others, but you can control how you respond to it. Don't let a narcissist manipulate you or make you feel small. Stand up for yourself and assert your boundaries. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness.- It's essential to accept that you cannot change a narcissist. Focus on protecting yourself and setting boundaries to maintain your mental and emotional well-being. Surround yourself with positive influences and don't let a narcissist drag you down.
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