Stop seeking approval from others from "summary" of Stop Doing That Sh*t by Gary John Bishop
Seeking approval from others is a surefire way to lose yourself in a futile pursuit of external validation. When you constantly look to others for approval, you are essentially giving away your power and control over your own life. You become a puppet, dancing to the tune of other people's opinions and judgments. This desperate need for validation stems from a deep-seated insecurity and a lack of self-worth. The truth is, no amount of approval from others will ever fill the void within you. It's like trying to quench your thirst with saltwater - no matter how much you consume, you will always be left wanting more. The only way to truly find fulfillment and happiness is to look within yourself and learn to validate and approve of yourself. When you stop seeking approval from others, you free yourself from the chains of external validation. You no longer need to rely on others to feel good about yourself because you have cultivated a strong sense of self-worth and self-approval. You become the master of your own destiny, no longer at the mercy of other people's opinions and judgments. By letting go of the need for approval from others, you open yourself up to a world of possibilities and opportunities. You are no longer constrained by the limitations of seeking validation from external sources. You are free to pursue your dreams and goals without fear of judgment or rejection. So, stop seeking approval from others and start approving of yourself. Embrace who you are, flaws and all, and celebrate your uniqueness. You are worthy of love and validation, and it all starts with you. Stop looking outside yourself for validation and start looking within. You have the power to approve of yourself, so why not start today?
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