Living with integrity means living in alignment with our values and principles from "summary" of Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden
Living with integrity means living in alignment with our values and principles. It requires that we act in accordance with what we believe to be right and true, even when it is difficult or inconvenient. This concept is fundamental to our sense of self-esteem because it reflects our commitment to being true to ourselves and our deepest convictions. When we live with integrity, we are able to look ourselves in the mirror and feel proud of the choices we have made. We do not have to hide or justify our actions because they are consistent with our core beliefs. This sense of congruence between our values and our behavior is essential for building a strong sense of self-worth. Living with integrity also means that we are honest with ourselves and others. We do not pretend to be someone we are not, nor do we deceive or manipulate to achieve our goals. Instead, we are transparent and authentic in our interactions, allowing others to see us for who we truly are. Integrity is not about being perfect or never making mistakes. It is about being willing to admit when we have done wrong and taking responsibility for our actions. This requires humility and a willingness to learn and grow from our experiences. When we live with integrity, we are able to cultivate deeper and more meaningful relationships with others. We are able to trust and be trusted, knowing that our words and actions are consistent with our values. This creates a sense of safety and security in our relationships, allowing them to flourish and thrive.- Living with integrity is a choice that we make every day. It requires courage and commitment to stay true to ourselves in a world that often values conformity over individuality. However, the rewards of living with integrity are immense, as it allows us to live a life that is authentic, fulfilling, and in harmony with our deepest values.
