Let go of societal pressures to be in a relationship from "summary" of Single On Purpose by John Kim
Societal pressures are like invisible hands that push us toward certain paths in life, often without us even realizing it. One of the most common pressures we all face is the expectation to be in a relationship. From a young age, we are bombarded with messages that suggest being single is somehow wrong or inadequate. We grow up believing that our worth is tied to our relationship status, that we are only truly happy and fulfilled if we are part of a couple. But what if we challenged this belief? What if we dared to question the idea that being single is something to be avoided or fixed?When we let go of societal pressures to be in a relationship, we free ourselves from the constraints of external expectations and norms. We give ourselves permission to live life on our own terms, to prioritize our own needs and desires above all else. Being single is not a curse or a sign of failure; it is a valid and valuable way of being in the world. It is a chance to focus on ourselves, to cultivate self-love and self-awareness, to pursue our passions and dreams without compromise. By embracing our single status, we reclaim our autonomy and agency. We no longer feel the need to conform to society's standards or seek validation from others. We learn to trust ourselves and our own judgment, to make decisions that are true to who we are and what we want. We become the authors of our own stories, the architects of our own happiness. Singlehood is not a state of lack, but a state of freedom and possibility. When we let go of societal pressures to be in a relationship, we open ourselves up to a world of new experiences and opportunities. We can travel solo, pursue new hobbies, build strong friendships, and focus on personal growth. We can redefine what it means to be happy and fulfilled, on our own terms. We can create a life that is rich and meaningful, regardless of our relationship status. So, let go of the pressure to be in a relationship, and embrace the freedom and joy of being single on purpose.
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