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Taking responsibility for one's own pleasure is empowering from "summary" of Sexual Intelligence by Marty Klein

Being able to take responsibility for our own pleasure is not just important, it's empowering. When we rely on someone else to provide us with pleasure, we give away our power and agency. We become dependent on others to meet our needs, which can lead to feelings of frustration and disappointment. By taking responsibility for our own pleasure, we reclaim control over our own satisfaction and fulfillment. When we take ownership of our pleasure, we are able to explore our desires and preferences without fear or shame. We can communicate openly and honestly with our partners about what brings us pleasure, leading to more satisfying and fulfilling sexual experiences. This level of self-awareness and self-expression can enhance our sense of intimacy and connection with our partners. Taking responsibility for our own pleasure also allows us to prioritize our needs and boundaries. We can set clear boundaries and communicate them effectively, ensuring that our needs are met and respected. This sense of self-advocacy can lead to greater self-confidence and self-esteem, both inside and outside the bedroom. Furthermore, by taking responsibility for our own pleasure, we are able to cultivate a sense of self-reliance and resilience. We learn to trust ourselves to meet our own needs and desires, rather than relying on external sources for validation or satisfaction. This sense of independence can be incredibly empowering and liberating, helping us to feel more in control of our own lives and experiences.
  1. When we take responsibility for our own pleasure, we are able to enhance our sense of agency, self-awareness, and self-advocacy. We can cultivate a greater sense of intimacy and connection with our partners, as well as a stronger sense of self-confidence and self-esteem. Ultimately, prioritizing our own pleasure is not just empowering – it is essential for our overall well-being and fulfillment.
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