Ignore societal pressures and focus on personal pleasure from "summary" of Sex From Scratch by Sarah Mirk
Societal pressures around sex are everywhere. From media to family and friends, we are bombarded with messages about how we should behave sexually. These messages can be overwhelming and confusing, leading us to feel ashamed or guilty about our desires and preferences. However, it's important to remember that these norms and expectations are not set in stone. We have the power to question and challenge them. When it comes to sex, focusing on personal pleasure is key. Instead of trying to fit into a certain mold or meet external expectations, we should prioritize what feels good and fulfilling to us individually. This means exploring our own desires, boundaries, and needs without judgment or shame. By tuning into our own pleasure, we can cultivate a more authentic and satisfying sexu...
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