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Embrace imperfection in communication from "summary" of Say What You Mean by Oren Jay Sofer
Communication can be a messy business. It's never going to be perfect, and that's ok. In fact, it's more than ok - it's actually a good thing. Imperfection is part of being human, and it's part of being in relationship with others. When we can embrace imperfection in communication, we can let go of the need to always be right or to have all the answers. Instead, we can relax into the messy, unpredictable, and sometimes awkward process of connecting with others. When we let go of the need for perfection, we create space for authenticity and vulnerability. We can be real with each other, sharing our thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of judgment or rejection. This kind of openness is essential for building trust and deepening our connections with others. Embracing imperfection in communication also means being willing to make mistakes and to learn from them. Instead of beating ourselves up for saying the wrong thing or not expressing ourselves perfectly, we can see these moments as opportunities for growth. We can reflect on what went well and what could have been better, and then use that feedback to improve our communication skills in the future. When we embrace imperfection in communication, we also create a more compassionate and understanding environment for ourselves and others. We can be gentle with ourselves when we stumble over our words or when our message doesn't come out as we intended. And we can extend that same kindness to others, recognizing that they, too, are doing their best to communicate honestly and authentically. In the end, embracing imperfection in communication is about letting go of the pressure to be perfect and instead embracing our humanity. It's about being willing to show up as we are, with all our flaws and imperfections, and trusting that in doing so, we can create deeper, more meaningful connections with others.
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