Prioritize the relationship over compliance from "summary" of Raising Human Beings by Ross W. Greene
When we prioritize the relationship over compliance, we are acknowledging that the most important thing in our interactions with our kids is our relationship with them. This means that, instead of focusing solely on getting them to comply with our demands, we put effort into understanding their perspective, collaborating with them, and working together to find mutually satisfactory solutions to problems. By doing so, we show our kids that we value and respect them as individuals, and that we are willing to work with them in a compassionate and empathetic way. This approach requires us to shift our mindset from one of control and authority to one of partnership and understanding. We must be willing to listen to our kids, validate their feelings and concerns, and b...
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