Discipline is about teaching, not punishing from "summary" of Positive Discipline A-Z by Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.,Lynn Lott,H. Stephen Glenn
Discipline is not about making children suffer for their mistakes. Instead, it is about guiding them towards better behavior through teaching and learning. Punishment may stop misbehavior temporarily, but it does not address the root causes of the behavior or provide long-term solutions. When parents focus on punishment, they miss the opportunity to teach their children valuable life skills and lessons. Teaching involves setting clear and consistent expectations for children while also providing them with the tools and strategies they need to meet those expectations. It requires patience, empathy, and understanding. By teaching children how to manage their emotions, communicate effectively, and problem-solve, parents can help them develop important skills that will serve them well ...
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