Prioritize the relationship over compliance from "summary" of Raising Human Beings by Ross W. Greene
When we prioritize the relationship over compliance, we are acknowledging that the most important thing in our interactions with our kids is our relationship with them. This means that, instead of focusing solely on getting them to comply with our demands, we put effort into understanding their perspective, collaborating with them, and working together to find mutually satisfactory solutions to problems. By doing so, we show our kids that we value and respect them as individuals, and that we are willing to work with them in a compassionate and empathetic way. This approach requires us to shift our mindset from one of control and authority to one of partnership and understanding. We must be willing to listen to our kids, validate their feelings and concerns, and be open to considering their point of view. This does not mean that we abandon our role as parents or give in to every request our kids make. It simply means that we approach conflicts and challenges with a focus on building and maintaining a strong and positive relationship with our children. When we prioritize the relationship over compliance, we are also modeling important skills and values for our kids. We are showing them that it is possible to resolve conflicts peacefully, communicate effectively, and work together to find solutions that benefit everyone involved. By demonstrating empathy, flexibility, and respect in our interactions with our kids, we are teaching them how to navigate the complexities of relationships and build strong connections with others.- Prioritizing the relationship over compliance is about fostering a supportive and nurturing environment in which our kids feel valued, heard, and understood. It is about creating a foundation of trust and respect that allows for open and honest communication, collaboration, and problem-solving. By putting our relationship with our kids first, we can strengthen our bond with them, enhance their emotional well-being, and promote positive behavior and development.
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