Focus on teaching skills rather than punishment from "summary" of Raising Human Beings by Ross W. Greene
When faced with challenging behavior in children, our natural inclination may be to punish them. After all, punishment has long been seen as an effective way to discipline children and teach them right from wrong. However, punishment often fails to address the underlying reasons for the behavior, leaving children feeling misunderstood and unsupported. Instead of focusing on punishment, it is more productive to focus on teaching skills that will help children navigate the challenges they face. By teaching skills rather than resorting to punishment, we are able to empower children to learn from their mistakes and develop the tools they need to make better choices in the future. Punishment, on the other hand, tends to breed resentment and defiance, making it less likely that children will learn from their errors. When we take the time to teach children the skills they need to succeed, we are investing in their future success and well-being. One key aspect of teach...
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