Use enforceable limits to set boundaries from "summary" of Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood by Jim Fay,Charles Fay
Enforceable limits are the key to setting boundaries with young children. These limits are boundaries that we can enforce consistently, without losing our cool or engaging in power struggles. When we establish enforceable limits, we are essentially setting the stage for our children to learn to make choices and take responsibility for their actions. One example of an enforceable limit is giving choices within limits. For instance, instead of saying, "What do you want for breakfast?" which opens up a wide range of options and potential arguments, we can say, "Would you like cereal or toast for breakfast?" This way, we are providing our child with a sense of control while still setting clear boundaries. Another example is using natural consequences to enforce limits. If a child refuses to wear a jacket on a cold day, the natural consequence w...
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