Collaborate with your child to solve problems from "summary" of Raising Human Beings by Ross W. Greene
The most effective way to solve problems with your child is not by imposing your will upon them, but by working together with them to find mutually satisfactory solutions. This collaborative approach allows you and your child to address the underlying reasons for their challenging behavior and come up with strategies that work for both of you. When you collaborate with your child, you show them that you value their perspective and input. This fosters a sense of mutual respect and trust, which is essential for solving problems together. By involving your child in the decision-making process, you empower them to take ownership of the solutions and become more invested in making positive changes. To successfully collaborate with your child, you need to approach problems with an open mind and a willingness to listen. This means setting aside your preconceived notions and assumptions about what is causing the behavior and being open to new ideas and perspectives. By being receptive to your child's point of view, you c...
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