Teaching boys resilience helps them cope with challenges in life from "summary" of Raising Boys, Third Edition by Steve Biddulph
Many people worry that boys are not as resilient as they should be. They get anxious, they avoid challenges, they collapse when things go wrong. But the good news is that resilience is not a fixed trait. It is a muscle that can be developed, and boys can learn to be tougher, more determined, and more resourceful. Resilience is a vital quality because life is full of challenges. If boys are not able to bounce back from setbacks, they can become trapped in a cycle of failure. They may give up on their dreams, they may feel overwhelmed by stress, and they may struggle to cope with the demands of adulthood. One of the most important ways to teach resilience is to let boys experience failure. When they face obstacles, they have the opportunity to learn how to overcome them. They can develop problem-solving skills, they can learn to ask for help when they need it, and they can build the confidence that comes from knowing they can handle whatever life throws at them. It is also important to encourage boys to take risks. When they s...
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