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Encouraging open communication with boys can strengthen relationships from "summary" of Raising Boys, Third Edition by Steve Biddulph

Boys, like all of us, need to feel heard and understood. It can be particularly challenging for boys to express their thoughts and feelings, as they are often socialized to be tough and stoic. However, by encouraging open communication with boys, we can create a safe space for them to share what is on their minds. When boys feel that they can talk openly with the important people in their lives, whether it be parents, teachers, or friends, they are more likely to feel connected and supported. This can strengthen the bond between boys and their loved ones, leading to healthier and more fulfilling relationships. By being receptive and nonjudgmental when boys do open up, we show them that their thoughts and feelings are valid and important. This validation can boost their self-esteem and confidence, as they learn that it is okay to express themselves honestly. It is essential to listen actively when boys share their thoughts and feelings, rather than simply waiting for our turn to speak. This demonstrates that we value what they have to say and are fully present in the conversation. Additionally, by modeling open communication ourselves, we show boys that it is normal and healthy to express emotions and thoughts. This sets a positive example for them to follow in their own interactions with others.
  1. Encouraging open communication with boys can have a profound impact on their relationships and overall well-being. By creating a supportive environment where boys feel comfortable expressing themselves, we can foster deeper connections and help them navigate the complexities of growing up.
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Raising Boys, Third Edition

Steve Biddulph

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